Are you trying to figure out how to win back your boyfriend, but are frustrated because he's acting like he doesn't care? Winning back a guy that seems uninterested is not as difficult as it first seems, but you need to learn how he thinks and work with his natural instincts or else you'll just end up pushing him away.

The approach I'm going to share with you is controversial. Some people may think that it's a type of manipulation or "game playing." But the reality is that you're dealing with your ex boyfriend's human nature, and you have to learn how work with these natural instincts instead of against them. The idea is to get him interested in you again. Once the two of you are back together, you can work on healing the deeper issues that drove you apart to begin with.

Here's the bottom line: Guys tend to want what they can't have. If you want to learn how to win back your boyfriend, you have to deal with this part of his nature.

If you're chasing after him, you're making yourself too available and he finds this behavior unattractive. He knows he can have you any time he wants and there is no mystery or challenge in that. He's basically taking you for granted.

But you can use this knowledge to your advantage. Instead of throwing yourself at him and confessing your undying love, do something unexpected. Break off all contact.

After a while of no contact, he will start to wonder what happened to you. Why aren't you chasing him anymore? Are you seeing someone else? Have you moved on finally? These are the types of thoughts that will run through his head and it has a very strong affect on him. He will start to miss you.

Of course there is more to it than simply ignoring him for a few weeks. You'll have to do it in a way that shows you're doing fine without him without looking like you're cold and uncaring. But letting go of any desperate behavior and giving him some space is a very powerful first step towards learning how to win back your boyfriend.

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